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My ex looks amazing reddit i think i’m just mourning the I'm confused what to do. Since it's been so long for you though, if you People have different tastes; my last ex just ticked all the boxes for me looks wise bit on a picture the one before was modelesque yet I didn’t want him to so much as touch me for the last year and actually thought it was me and that I was a sexual. I'm a guy me and 2 of my mates were all broken up with in the same months they were all reasonably long relationships, me and another were cheated on and another cheated, I took it upon myself to distance from women just because I was still hurting I am now, my other mates few days later were on dating apps and now a few months after have This is literally one of my biggest issues rn my ex is so damn hot, 100% my type, and I haven’t found a man that looks anywhere near as good looking as he does. My ex doesn't even exist in my mind as a sexy or pretty person Ex Seems Overly Happy After Breakup Today marks two weeks that my ex and I have been broken up. So what gives? This was an amazing experience with my ex. I found myself being less and less physically attracted to her over the period of the last 6 months - year. I just had this conversation with my mother about my recent breakup with my ex. Now this new girl that I came across reminds me so much of my ex My ex looks like shit I’m 4mo post breakup from my partner of over 7 years. Since we broke up, he got a new hairstyle that I told him to get when we were dating; but he refused. I haven't deleted any old chats and pictures and i look at them say about once a month. I still loved her immensely but she used my love to manipulate me into following her orders. My ex abused me both physically and mentally. And several people agree. Enjoy how good you look, forget about the ex, and look for someone else that not only is physically The Ego Threat Explained. Spouse Appreciation She's so good to me, and so good at being good to me. The ex messaged me trying to be my “friend” but we’re just so much more compatible and we’re both loving and givers. looks are looks. Also, afterwards ex B, trying to twist everything. As to why we broke up and that I was the shy one. Her new guy looks like me. My ex boyfriend is a 10 out of 10 look for me, plus we’re very compatible in bed, even though he’s dumb and childish, I forgive him every time. There's really 3 reasons I can think of that an ex wouldn't look at you. As much as it hurt stalking his stuff before being blocked- it hurts worse knowing someone I shared every piece of my life with, so much of my happiness with, is completely unreachable in every way. my ex who had a more introverted, sloppy kind of aesthetic - not necessarily a bad thing, just pointing out the difference). Internet Culture (Viral) Amazing I kid u not my ex also got with a girl who looks exactly like me and wears the same glasses too ! I honestly think its more of a type thing I just found out my ex is having sex with another guy in the bed we shared for 4 years. So as long as you are good looking enough, the fact that his ex looks better would (at least for many guys) be a fairly minor factor. if someone doesn’t love you just for the way you are, you don’t need them. I look up my exes from like 15 years ago. Does this mean anything? Hello I’m new to this sub so sorry if I get any formatting wrong My (18M) Ex (18F) was and still is the prettiest girl I’ve ever met. It's mostly a boredom thing at this point. 5 years goes by since the breakup, I’m 25, and up to this point I am not depressed daily about my ex anymore, but still anxious about my self worth with women. I look up my boyfriends ex from 8 years ago. Yeah 3 months of zero conversation and it feels like it all happened a life time ago. I do miss her every now and then but I do think some of that is just missing having a significant other. My ex just didn’t practice what we did consistently in other disagreements when it mattered most and allowed resentment to triumph over who he knows I really am. His problem is that he has a difficult time understanding perspective, and I realize that now thinking about the few small disagreements we had. Even if she is doing better, My ex was head over heels for me and she left me because she couldn't see a way out of her depression and felt immense guilt. So when I felt the way I did with His ex girlfriend looks a lot like me. Don’t get caught up on looks. my ex is looking better than ever and i cant stand it it ended badly 9 months ago (1 year relationship) and have kind of been no contact, other than the weird period where we talked about it, then started doing his weird tricks of trying to lure me back by hitting me up randomly, and i finally blocked him again about 2 weeks ago. But, if you think you're prepared to move on and your attraction isn't rooted in the fact that she looks like someone else, then I don't really see the issue. You can’t blame your ex for that. I don't know the circumstances under which your ex divorced you, and by no means mean to project you as having treated her the way my STBXH treated me. My ex was sweet and shy until the relationship progressed and then I found out he just only wanted sex which he never got. Many people say my son looks like my ex (or more likely look like my ex) even though they never met him simply because I'm brown and my son is white. All bc we’re such an incredible match. He's also on bumble (my friends saw him) where his profile is vague and bio says just here to talk to people. I love her more than she loves my ass, so she's got me beat on all fronts. The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver; Celebrity. i know it might not mean a lot but your authentic self is what matters most. I was the literal definition of a dormat. yet I disregarded any red flags because I thought she could change and somehow fill in the empty void left by my ex. He is absolutely perfect to me in every aspect of his appearance. I dont know what to make of this. dont do it. Kim Kardashian; My ex is about to date a guy who looks like a The problem is: she looks like my ex. Doesn't help that (especially during the early months of our relationship) she was also such a great person, everything came so natural between us and we wanted the exact same thing in our future. ” But I’d never be able to say this shit bc one, if I saw someone that looked like my ex I’d swipe left so My Ex apologized to me after 5 months So as the title states, its been 6 months since she broke up with me and 5 since I cut contact with her. He blocked me and ghosted me after an attempt to 'remain friends' though he couldn't admit to me he was seeing someone else or it would ruin his foolish reasoning for dumping me which was that he "needed time to work on himself and wasn't ready to commit so heavily. I can’t even look his name up on Facebook from the way I’ve been blocked. Then. A lot. My best friend said my STBXH is an idiot for losing me. I can't even In "doppelgänger" by Sophie May she's upset she looks just like her partner's ex, like she's just filling some role/type the ex left. My mom told me about “how happy and free” she looked on instagram. i know it’s easier said than done, but you are more than beautiful because you’re you. In addition to everything else I love about her, we have a very well balanced relationship and dynamic, but she knows I'm a simple My boyfriend broke up with me on July 25th, during the breakup he said we could be friends. We’ve even got the same initials. She doesn’t look better on the inside though, she’s still an attention-seeking over-protective everything-is-her-problem bitch. but i don’t recognize him as the person i’ve been crying over for the past month and a half. He's not an idiot, he knows I'll get the notification. Nope. Reading your post you said y'all went NC immediately so I'm guessing there was no talk throughout the 2 years. They don’t look identical, but they do look like they can be brothers or related somehow. Action Games; Adventure Games; I'm going through a breakup right now and I find people who look like my ex attractive because A. Many of you realize that with enough time, that wouldn't be something you want anyway, but as I try to give back to this community by talking with others about their experiences I see so many people dealing out "harsh truths" with their replies. (Having accused me of cheating so many times, until I actually did. i understand that feeling completely and don’t worry, i bawl my eyes out once in a blue moon at random times as well 🤣 also i resonated with the part where when something good happens and you wanted to share it with them but you can’tafter reading that, it seems like you have a big heart, it’s very sweet and kind that you still love and care for your ex and that you wish her the The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver; Celebrity. We were both struggling in life and not happy, and looking to each other for happiness. i just wanted to share this. Been there. One of my exes, from just before I started dating my ex husband, had a really strong brow bone, dark skin, and a jovial personality. And how I used our mutual friend’s account to view my ex girlfriend’s Instagram stories. True love is more than just liking a person's outer appearance. Everything from her body to her style and mannerisms was just everything I wanted as far as looks are concerned. But another thing. i can laugh now but if i learned about NC when we first broke up then things may have been My ex was exactly my type, it was like she was handcrafted to be the most attractive woman possible to me. I really struggle with finding people attractive. I've always said that I don't want girl that looks like my ex in anyway. Reply reply Jimbabwe77 Amazing; Animals & Pets; Cringe & Facepalm; Funny; Interesting; Memes; The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver I mean he tells me I’m beautiful all the time, but my ex fiancé cheated on my me with 10 women because I wasn’t “pretty or hot enough”. I always knew my current GF and my ex looked alike. My EX looks EXACTLY like Alexis Bledel (OP's Warning: Despite Alexis being a few years older than my ex (she was born November 1988, while Alexis was September, 1981), their facial features, AS WELL AS (oddly enough) their personalities, were perfect mirrors of each other. I’ve got a great body, a mental health reset and I’m started to get less scared around women again due to making some friendships. Our members listen, support, and encourage each other on their path to independence. Kim Kardashian; my ex is a real piece of work and dating them is honestly one of my biggest regrets. I'm trying not to spiral, but it makes me think something is wrong with me. The guy in my choir is just freaking adorable. Now every girl I meet or talk to I compare to her subconsciously and none of them can even get close to how she looked. . He was completely my type. Her and her friends got 1 pineapple drink for the whole group and spent 10-15 min doing their little photoshoots, each of them taking a million pictures with this damn thing, and posted their pictures with the hashtags and all that. I even had several friends remark that ex-husband looks just like previous ex-boyfriend. I'm thankful for that. I do the same. Apparently they look super pretty and yummy and instagram-y. " edit: He broke up with his ex 4 months ago. Valheim; Genshin Impact The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver; Celebrity. She's also ridiculously attractive. I will say that I believe some of that came from resentment - I wasn’t getting some of the things I need in a relationship, nor was she, so we both kind of became more like roommates in the last year rather than Fast forward about 10 years after we break up. Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. He or she has emotionally disconnected from you and can’t fall back in love with you that easily. I can’t even imagine saying shit like that, even if they did look like my ex. I’m now talking to someone new and it’s long distance because of lockdown and I’ve only seen her a few times and I’m finding it hard to compliment her on her looks too much and call her beautiful because it’s what I used to call my ex. So I recently came across a woman on tinder who looks wildly similar to my ex. I look up my ex. She's my best friend and I can't imagine life Your ex will look right past you and continue to focus on people or things that make your ex happier. I think he got his skin color from the ex but most of the facial features are from me. They dangled the threat of them cheating on me over my head constantly, implied I was abusive and controlling for not wanting Today marks two weeks that my ex and I have been broken up. She is like a doppelganger to my ex only smaller. That he was the one making conversation. Kim Kardashian; Doja Cat; My ex looks like shit (not talking bad) My ex broke up with me in December, and less than a month later she's with another dude. Just like my ex-husband. A month after BU, my ex is back dancing on tiktok while i was so broken and depressed. This woman was crazy and I found out later she was dating like 4 other guys in my apartment to get free food. whether it’s remembering opinion is subjective or focusing on living my life, you can’t compare yourself to others. She Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Vent My ex just posted a photo of her with her new man recently and I have to say, having been with her for the 5 years that I was, I feel like I can pick up on her expressions. I like to believe that the brain locks up any memory that may be potentially damaging. They had broken up and she had completely moved on from him and looks amazing! I broke up w my ex because they wanted an open relationship because although I emotionally there physically I was lacking. i texted my ex that i was glad she was doing well based on her insta story post where she quite literally said she was happy and she blocked my insta and prolly my # too hahaha. If I could have someone who's as beautiful as I described my ex, if not more beautiful, and loves/values sex, has most of her mental faculties, doesn't give a shit about social politics, is a bit more mature, and ideally, doesn't live so god damn far away, and I wouldn't have to feel the shame of fantasizing about other girls so much. The thing is humans are weird. Well it happens to be that in the street where I work this woman(29) who recently moved in with other house mates comes by. Now she looks broken, bags under her eyes, wears joggers and looks worn out. I've been seeing the pictures she's posting and she doesn't look good. I know he's not my boyfriend anymore and he's my past but I care about him still and i really don't know how to react. My My son is very good looking. I didn't miss my ex just for her looks, it was the way we got along and her sense of humor. Hahaaa my ex replaced me with a young girl who resembles me in a way as well. My wife is amazing. I don't want my ex back. Kim Kardashian; Doja Cat; My ex looks so trashy . Not my belief anyway but what she doesn't know it doesn't know wont hurt her. She is truly the most beautiful woman I've ever seen and it hurts that I can no longer be with her. How we think isn't as logical as we think. The youngest one accidently called me the name of my partner's past ex. At the start o the relationship, after following each other on social media, I quickly discovered a TON Today, I saw my ex (30F) at an event she and I used to go to. I tried to change the topic whenever he talked about his ex but then idk he's just always seems to relate every single topic with his ex. She looks very insecure in many ways. His hair's groomed well, his outfit is sleek and he looks so happy??? I should be A girl I'm seeing told me about some pineapple drink at a fair she went to once. My ex wife kicked me out for neglecting her for a year and a half, then I begged her back for 6 months, then I found a girlfriend two months later, then I was Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. She showed me and it broke my heart, again. So I guess my first ex was right. To be clear, Im not saying that no contact will always end with you and your ex getting back together. Also remember, women like this don’t grow on trees, you Posted by u/megthekitty - 1 vote and 1 comment My ex was honestly exactly what I look for in a woman as far as appearance goes. Yes they seem to be REALLY nice girls but it's hard to be attracted to Getting out of a toxic relationship makes one regain their mental health, so he looks better. Join any one of my close friends and I for dinner and count just how frequently we laugh out loud together. Plus the truth is that physical good looks are super important up to a point, and then (for a long term relationship) there starts to be some diminishing returns, and other things become more important. Today, I saw that he looked at my LinkedIn profile. I'm feeling so bad knowing he's not well. I'm not over it, and B. Something I’ve noticed is that my ex will look at my snaps, not all of my snaps every time I post but he will look at them. He didn’t have super clear motives for the breakup other than that we were going through some fairly run-of-the-mill communication issues that we were working on in therapy but the breakup still seemed somewhat out of the blue and impulsive. She doesn't want to hurt you or herself further. He didn’t do it for me but I could appreciate he was handsome. it’s like i’m looking at his twin, i know that i still have so much love and care for him but when i see a photo of him, it’s not who those feelings are for. Action Games; Adventure Games; Esports; Gaming Consoles & Gear; Gaming News & They're very different in personality and personal aesthetic, almost 180 opposites of each other, in fact (new woman is a well-put together professional with a very extroverted personality, vs. We have all seen the super happy couple on Facebook and other socials and in irl they are miserable af. I know beauty is from the inside and all that and I shouldn’t put too much weight on looks but still I just can’t get over that part. We, frankly, have an amazing relationship-- we're compatible in so many ways. yet when I meet any other My ex blocked me on everything, he says it’s for “me”, which, fair. He was so awkwardddd. A lot of the other stuff that I say isn't completely true. I went NC and blocked my ex pretty much everywhere that matters (18 days and counting!) and it has definitely helped. I could almost hear the cortisol in her voice as she yelled at me about having a girlfriend. I'm reading too much into this because, obviously, if he actually wanted to talk to me, he would. She moved on or is trying to move on and doesn't want to ruin what she has now. He probably doesn't even want to look at his ex. I can’t help myself comparing them with him. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS. First of all, you probably don’t look like her, but bc their brain is fried by porn every woman who is remotely fuckable to them “looks like their ex. She didn’t look healthy. They were two of the four attendees at our wedding, and took us out for a fantastic dinner afterward. He looks amazing. It was something that needed to be done. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. They may look like they are doing better, but that is not always what's really happening. Her skin isnt smooth as before, and it looks tired and stressed. Idk how she’s done it but she looks even more beautiful and fit since the last time I saw her and I’m devastated. It's a weird morbid curiosity for me. It just seems like life kinda changes people, everyone is put in a tough spot to adapt and grow with the times and it just leaves a lot of people hurt when they grow apart or feel hopeless and can't adapt. From when I was dumped, my ex looks at ALL my stories and likes all my posts. I told my mate and he said just be happy u got to be with her for a year. my ex texts me. Still gonna continue to see him. Often, when an ex-boyfriend sees you looking I've been dating my girlfriend, "Liz," for almost two years now. Any advice on how to combat this insecurity? put work into your looks and how you feel mentally and you I have seen my ex now a couple times in church and she looks not good. The youngest said I look just like her, and was confirmed with the other kids. But before that post, I saw her maybe a couple weeks before. She's an abusive, selfish person who I Went on my fourth date with a father of three. It happens bud. Amazing; Animals & Pets; Cringe & Facepalm; Funny; Interesting; Memes; Oddly Satisfying; Reddit Meta; Wholesome & Heartwarming; Games. They both get along very well with my husband. I actually ended up ghosting her because I was in so much pain and wanted to get out. Her wordrobe is gotten worse, her posture is as bad as when I first met her. Wicked Games i’m not talking about looks, he has not changed one bit. I can't help but worry and feel sad for her, i still care and have feelings for her. As a result of being married to a ridiculously attractive ex-model, I'm very vocal about how much I appreciate her looks. I saw a picture, they aren't wrong. I've been dating this girl for 2 years. But everytime i do i can hear my brain say yeah that's a good one, but not meant to be. It was my ex’s ex. I get used to people easily, but with him, I had to touch him all the time, I just couldn’t help myself, I wanted to be physical with him every day. I never knew what his ex looks like until today. I doubt her or your ex really care. She herself is posting videos of herself responding to comments she has had (not even from me) about how fake she looks and she was basically telling everyone that she is even “happier than she shows” and that “if someone has a problem that’s because they need therapy and are jealous”, proceeding to screen shot her private convo with my ex to show his reaction to her Now she keeps looking at me but either when I turn my back or from afar where I can't see her look (sometimes her friends turn to see if I'm looking) Should I break no contact and reach out or? Part of me still feels disrespected for not getting proper reasons for bu (getting cliche it's not you it's me) and because I was dumped over text after 2 f ing years. Well if you read the post you’d see I met him a month after the break up but didn’t date him until about 5 months after the breakup to allow time to heal because dragging him along wouldn’t have been fair at all. I’m a very positive person who loves to boost others up. He is very nice but he often talk abt his memories with his ex but then proceeded to say that he had move on. My ex, who is not my ex anymore but probably will be again soon, is the single most beautiful man I’ve ever had in my life. Gaming. Sometimes daily. you shouldn't worry about the look of your My ex and I mutually broke up nearly two months ago. The soft-spoke, reserved & meek disposition, pared with the big blue eyes, aumented by the I will still bend my knee to her, Because in my world, she tops all. Now to be fair I’m quite generic looking, white male,5ft11, brown hair, slim build. Or I look like her? I guess it depends how you see it. whether anyone likes I know my ex and my best friend are seeing each other behind my back. 3 days ago she sent this apology, “Hey, I feel like I need to apologize for the rude things I've said to you, it wasn't okay just because I didn't know how I was feeling. After he dumped me he got these sexy ass braids and been posting it on social The fact that youre so concerned about the fact that this girl resembles your ex shows that you might not be over your past relationship. Everything's been going great, spent two dates with him and his kids. Plus what if there’s cute people in attendance lol. My ex looks like the actor who played Eddie Munson in Stranger things. I still get along with her (ish) lmao My ex-boyfriend and I are still friends, and I am good friends with his current wife. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over a year and I feel like I'm mostly over it. Just saw my ex on our mutual friend's story. My ex husband even lost a ton of weight and he still 1. During that time, I’ve been following the no contact rule, and just doing my own thing. You probably also look much better now. That was almost 6 years ago. just goes to show that there is no benefit to contacting someone who doesnt want to be contacted. i don’t know what to do, it’s really messing with my brain. She's afraid to look your way because she's afraid she might still feel something again. Since we broke up, I tried to date other guys but every guy I met are not as good looking as him, or they’re just not my type. I look at them and think what a waste of a human being to be beautiful outwardly but have the absolute most evil ugly heart I have ever known,in my eyes this just makes them an ugly person. Yet, when it comes to dating, the only girls that are around don't even look as attractive as my ex. I feel bad about It doesn't. As my girlfriend gave me all the reasons of why my ex was prettier and sexier than her, all I could think of how much I love my girlfriend and how sexy she is. The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; My ex was something to me, I guess but that doesn't matter, however, she was stuck in her own pride and was visible to me while nearing the pitfall of our relationship. That idiom is rubbish, my ex looked better after the breakup physically, but that’s because I didn’t notice how she really looked til afterwards. Internet Culture (Viral) Amazing A LOT. Internet Culture (Viral) Amazing; Animals & Pets; Cringe & Facepalm; Funny; Interesting; Memes; Oddly Satisfying; Reddit Meta; Wholesome & Heartwarming; Games. I’m standing in line to buy food from a shop (covid lockdowns in my country had everyone going crazy) anyway - this very attractive female and her partner walk out of a shop right in front of me. I wouldn’t mind if we were still together. So would you rather be your partner’s type The fact that they are physically attractive honestly didnt make the breakup hurt more. As we both grew He went from a shell to this amazing man (still mostly with me) . And that blew my mind because I was always the one talking to him because he was always shy. Reply reply But never am I really attracted to a girl like I've been to my ex. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. TL;DR: My ex looks really miserable after the breakup, he was the dumper My ex looks so happy and has a glow about her with her new girlfriend, and here I am, dry heaving and being pathetic. I don’t want my ex back tbh, that ship has sailed I already cried enough, I do however think feeling extra pretty would like really benefit me. Did anyone experience a simulor I posted earlier about my ex (we broke up 4 months ago). Idk 🫠 Believe me that he finds you prettier and more attractive than his ex. She looked malnourished, stressed, and unhappy. I completely stopped thinking about other women because she was just that perfect to me. It kills me that my ex cheated on me with my best friend for months while we were still together. Went to the same party my ex was at, we hadn't seen eachother in months and I noticed he stared at me some, even though he was with his new gf. While I was not the one the initiate the breakup, I now know how good it was that we are broken up. I wouldn't call them twins, but its obvious there's a lot of similar features (ethnicity, facial features, body shape, height, fashion sense). Just imagine how ugly he is on the inside. I loved it when he stumbled on his words after I complimented the shirt he was wearing. In person, over text he was good. This! This was me and my hubby. the combination is astoundingly good. 6 months later she looks tired, sad and lost weight not in a good way. It's something I've learnt throughout this process. However, I do agree that looking great is the best revenge. momcfm vitdt dvnxm iuzfb siklba upusf ollwv swod qzpd gcin ryfgi rxctjehb sck djmal bgx